Relationships · Reflection

Relationship Patterns

Explore your own responses to closeness, distance, and communication.

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What you’ll get

  • A clear summary based on the answers you give.
  • A behavior summary with the situations and answers behind it.
  • Your complete answers, with options to print, download, or save locally.

Before you begin

Answer about your own behavior in one current or recent relationship, using the past three months. Choose Not applicable when a situation has not happened.

Know the method

An original 12-question reflection checklist. It summarizes the behavior you report, without assigning an attachment type or assessing your partner. It has not been validated as an attachment assessment.

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How your answers are handled

Progress is stored in this browser tab so you can return to it. Completed results stay in the tab’s session; a local profile is saved only if you choose to save the report. Answers are not sent to TraitMap.

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